Many mothers have a problem with their child’s misconduct, which is a concern for both parents. Often, the mother can not find out why her child behaved badly, so she always reprimands him, but the mother must know that resorting to reprimanding the child will never result in his wrong or bad behavior.
Parents, especially the mother, should try to understand the reasons behind her child’s bad behavior and take some steps afterwards to try to solve the problem that may be bothering the child. A child is certainly wrong when he misbehaves but behaves in an illogical or bad way for some reason. Sometimes the child’s misconduct may be intentional and sometimes unintentional and for more than one reason. Therefore, discovery of the cause is essential to correct the situation.
The basic task of the child is how to discover and understand the complex world around him, and with time and at every age he always tests his mother and challenges her to try to determine whether he has to abide by the rules. The mother must take advantage of such an opportunity, bearing in mind that setting and adhering to the child’s rules and boundaries and making the child adhere to them will gain positive values and increase self-confidence.
Usually the child gets attention and attention at home or school in normal and positive ways, but sometimes the child thinks that to attract the attention of others should be bad behavior. This may be the kind of child who speaks without permission at school and who always tries to make strange sounds at the dinner table at home to force everyone to pay attention to him.
Every mother should know that if the child feels that there is a difference between the way he is treated at home and those treated at school, he will begin to feel pressure. Therefore, each mother should talk with the teachers in her child’s school to explain to them how to deal with the child and understand the teacher or teacher how to deal with the child in different situations.
A child may start to behave badly if he feels a little distrust of himself, especially when he is asked to do something he did not do before, which may make him a little afraid, which makes him behave in a negative way because he wants to avoid the task he has to do. A child may sometimes misbehave because he or she does not get enough sleep or not to eat. The child is always reprimanded for the mistake he commits, but he is rarely praised for his good things, which may make him frustrating and thus make him behave in a negative and bad way.
The child takes example and example from his father and mother and if he sees that they are misbehaving, then he will imitate them. Sometimes the child may misbehave to make sure that his mother will apply the punishment to him, bearing in mind that the child may also sometimes misbehave in order to prove that he is not a young child as it is treated.
Every mother should know that when her child is given any kind of interest, even if he is negative because of his misconduct, he is thus rewarded. If the child continues to cry or lose his temper to surrender to the mother then it means that you are rewarding him. It is best to tell your child what you want quietly and in short words. The child will continue to behave in the same way that you may consider them bad or negative so that you teach him how to behave rather than tell him not to behave in a particular way.