How to deal with stubbornness and nervousness in children …

The complaint of mothers of child stubbornness is almost a general complaint, especially in the age of 2-6 years. The child may notice that he is separate from the mother and finds pleasure in choosing his own choices. For months his mother was his hand: eat and clean him and change his clothes. It is his mind that chooses what he eats and wears and chooses his games as well … He starts stubbornness with the child’s physical dependence on himself, he wants to be liberated, try, and start …

And stubbornness of children can be just stubbornness linked to certain situations and should not be considered more stubborn than the way to express self and desires and only needs to understand or be stubborn behavior is stubbornness, which needs a plan to modify the behavior of the child

Insistence linked to attitudes:

The child insists on something and cries for it. In fact, he tries to explain his discomfort to a situation. For example, the mother insists on wearing a heavy coat in the winter and the child is stubbornly and violently rejected. The reason is that the weight of the coat is heavy or restricts. His movement, this is not stubborn This message from the child does not find a way to deliver them only by rejection and shouting

Stubbornness of determination and will: the insistence of the child to repair the game itself and rejects the mother’s attempts to help or guidance, and as long as there is no harm, we advise the mother to be the biggest purpose is to give the child opportunities to try and learn and the main purpose is to actually reform the game

Stubbornness with self: the child just wants to prove that he has the freedom and choices such as refusing to eat hungry, and in this type of stubbornness we offer food without pressure, often the child will respond to the first attempt to feed him

The child is not aware of the reasons for the strong prevention and is frustrated and insists on his position, only try to replace the idea of ‚Äč‚Äčexit offers other fun also to make him choose what he prefers

Intolerance is behavioral:

It is the refusal and the child’s refusal to accept any requests in the absolute, and may be accompanied by nervous and verbal or physical violence such as the destruction of his property or the property of others,

This requires focusing on adjusting the child’s behavior and sometimes we may need help with a specialist

Some causes of behavioral obstinacy in children:

Bad example: father, mother, brother, violent relative

Excessive tolerance of parents: (excessive pampering): Positive response to the scream of the child, it comes back to the child that screams achieve his demands

Child neglect: due to working conditions, divorce, family differences, the arrival of a new child and the imbalance in meeting the demands of the two children

Child’s feeling of physical disability: for example, polio

Tightness of the place and the presence of excess energy for the child and wants to play

Some electronic games infect the child with tension and nervousness

In the end, our attempts to modify the behavior of children at the end of the focus is mainly on addressing the causes:

Stay away from the bad model

Avoid excessive pampering and full surrender to the child’s unreasonable demands

Focus on positive behavior, encourage it and neglect negative behavior

Give the child a chance to spawn his energy by providing places to play or participate in games appropriate to his age

Choosing electronic games suitable for his age and does not increase his tension

Develop the child’s feeling of happiness and fun and provide a calm atmosphere and enhance the sense of security of prisoners

Follow up with a special behavioral specialist in cases of physical deficiency

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